A vlogger who prides herself on teaching people how to date billionaires has revealed the five bad habits that can lead to you becoming a social outcast.
London-based elegance coach Anna Bey, 34, explained not returning any favours, talking too much and having bad breath will likely lead to ‘people avoiding you’.
The Swedish founder of the School of Affluence also suggested that ‘elegant women’ should try to avoid being a know-it-all because it hints at being insecure and a bad listener.
In her latest YouTube clip, she advised people to ‘soften up their face’ and warned that ‘acting cold or snobbish’ would result in rejection.
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Anna Bey (pictured), who goes by the moniker ‘JetSetBabe’ online, divulged the top tips in her latest YouTube clip to avoid being rejected
Talking too much
‘Talk is cheap,’ insisted the finishing school teacher. ‘One of those things that really put people off are those people who just talk too much.
‘They try to impress. They brag and in general, they just talk a lot because they’re so insecure. People really don’t like that. They feel like, ‘Oh this person is just too much.’
‘This person is just making too much effort of trying to be liked and it just puts everyone off.
‘I know that this might happen because somebody is insecure. Which is why, if you feel that this can be you, start thinking about, are you insecure? Do you need to work on your self-esteem?
‘That should be prioritized as much as you should also prioritize to work on your self-confidence so that you don’t have to rely on these types of blunders.’
The Swedish founder of the School of Affluence (pictured) claimed that ‘people will reject you if you never return any favours’
Not returning any favours
‘People will reject you if you never return any favours,’ the elegance coach said, after suggesting that all relationships are about give and take.
‘The best networkers out there, they’re the ones who always think about “how I can be of service to others? What can I do for other people?”
‘When you lead with that energy and that mindset, you are never going to be somebody that leads to people feeling like they’re being used because they never get anything back.
‘I know that it’s nice to be well taken care of and to have people to help you out and do all these favours for you. But you really need to reciprocate in whatever way possible, even if you don’t have the same means to reciprocate.
‘There are always things that you can actually do. And sometimes, you need to think a little bit outside the box to understand what exactly you can offer and bring to the table.’
Having bad breath
‘People will reject you if you have bad breath,’ the vlogger, who goes by the moniker ‘JetSetBabe’ online, candidly claimed.
‘I know that this might come as a bit of a shocker to you. But truly, a friendly reminder to all of the ladies out there, keep regular hygiene at the dentist, and we’re talking every three, four or five or latest every six months. Don’t cheat with those.
‘Of course, brush your teeth. Have mints nearby and also have the courage to ask a close friend, maybe somebody you trust. Do I have a stinky breath? Seriously, ladies, you just never know.
‘It’s one of those things that we don’t pay attention to, or we can’t really smell our own breath.’
Acting snobbish
Anna (pictured), who prides herself on teaching people how to date billionaires, divulged how not returning any favours, talking too much and having bad breath often results in a person being rejected
‘When you act cold, act snobbish or simply look down on other people because you are too insecure [then you will be rejected],’ insisted Anna.
‘Again, we’re back to the insecure topic. But the thing is that so many people are insecure, which is why so many people end up disliking them and rejecting them because they end up acting foolishly.
‘And number four is probably the biggest one on this whole entire list that will actually make you be rejected.
‘People want warmth. People like a friendly face. People would like to see a smile from time to time. If you feel like you have a natural face, which is a little bit more negative then try and soften up. It is all about becoming aware of your shortcomings.
‘But it’s also about thinking “okay I might have a few insecurities. I might come across a bit cold when I step into a room and I don’t know anybody. And yes, people might think that I’m just a big snob.”
‘Become aware of this and start working on this and you will be able to fix it in no time, the more awareness you have.
London-based elegance coach Anna (pictured) suggested those that are know-it-alls are often avoided
Being a know-it-all
For her fifth point, the elegance coach suggested those that are know-it-alls are often avoided.
She said: ‘Don’t we just strongly dislike all of those people who are a Mr or Mrs Know-it-All?
‘If you feel that you always need to have the last word, or you have the authority to the truth or you are always there as a warrior of knowing what’s right and everybody else is wrong… I think that behaviour stems from insecurity.
‘Ladies this is not a very efficient way of communicating with other people. It’s very important to be able to actually step outside of you for a second and look at things objectively.
‘It’s actually quite healthy to listen to other people’s opinions and think for a second that maybe what they’re saying is actually true.
‘What I tend to say is that sometimes there isn’t a right and wrong and that’s something that I want all of the know-it-alls to think about.
‘Be a little more flexible, open up for other opinions, don’t always try to prove your own value by having to be right.
‘It’s okay to be wrong from time to time and actually it’s quite healthy because that will add a lot to your personal growth. There is nothing wrong with being wrong.’