Rumer Willis lost her virginity to an ‘older’ man who ‘took advantage’ of her when she was 18

Rumer Willis revealed she lost her virginity at 18-years-old by an ‘older’ man.

The 32-year-old actress recalled the shame associated with losing her virginity as she chatted with Jada Pinket Smith on her Red Table Talks Facebook Watch series.

Willis noted that she wasn’t ‘gung ho’ about the encounter while discussing sexual consent with Willow Smith and Adrienne Banfield-Norris.

‘When I lost my virginity when I was 18, I was more concerned with the shame that I was feeling at not having done it,’ she said. ‘I was not abused or it wasn’t rape, but I didn’t say yes. I wasn’t gung ho about it. 

‘But I also didn’t say no. I just let it happen.’

She added that the man who ‘took advantage’ of her was ‘older’ and didn’t give her the chance for consent.

‘[He] didn’t check in,’ she said. ‘That’s where I feel like the man’s responsibility is. No means no, but what if you can’t say no?’

Rumer and sister Tallulah previously joined Jada on her popular show to discuss the effects of their mother’s 2012 relapse.

‘It was like the sun went down, and, like, a monster came, you know?’ Tallulah, 26, said of Demi Moore during their interview in November 2019. 

‘Like, I remember, there’s just the anxiety that would come up in my body when I could sense her eyes shutting a little bit more, the way she was speaking, or she would be a lot more affectionate with me if she wasn’t sober.’ 

Rumer noted that her mom’s behavior was ‘jarring and weird’ while Tallulah added: ‘I recall being very upset and kind of treating her like a child and speaking to her like a child. It was not the mom that we had grown up with.’

Demi detailed some of her struggles with addiction and a look into her family life post divorce from Ashton Kutcher and Bruce Willis in the 2019 memoir, Inside Out.