Raquel Leviss tearfully issued an ultimatum to boyfriend James Kennedy after receiving nasty texts from him on Tuesday’s episode of Vanderpump Rules.
The 25-year-old SUR server confronted English DJ James, 28, at their apartment after he drunkenly rage-texted her inappropriate messages.
‘I’m not gonna pretend like it didn’t happen to make you feel better,’ Raquel told him.
Tears flowing: Raquel Leviss tearfully issued an ultimatum to James Kennedy on Tuesday’s episode of Vanderpump Rules after he sent her nasty text messages while drunk
‘Listen, I say a lot of things to people when I’m drunk. I’m never mean to you when I’m sober, am I?,’ James countered.
Raquel complained that he does giver her a ‘tone’ and James played the British card.
‘That’s my personality, babe. I’m from England. I get a tone. That’s just who I am. If you don’t love me for who I am, then buh-bye,’ James told her.
‘You’re embarrassed by your actions, and you should be,’ Raquel told him emphatically.
British card: ‘That’s my personality, babe. I’m from England. I get a tone. That’s just who I am. If you don’t love me for who I am, then buh-bye,’ James told her
James told her to ‘cut it out’ or he would leave and said he was ‘over’ the conversation after Raquel said he needed to stop drinking.
‘I’m like the one person who stands by him through everything and gives him so many chances. And that hurts,’ Raquel said crying in a confessional.
James walked out, but returned a short time later.
Standing by: ‘I’m like the one person who stands by him through everything and gives him so many chances. And that hurts,’ Raquel said crying in a confessional
Walking out: The 28-year-old English DJ walked out on the conversation, but quickly returned
He told Raquel that he was sorry.
‘I know you’re sorry, but like I’m not going to blame myself for your actions,’ Raquel bluntly told him.
‘I’m not gonna be embarrassed for you. I’ve been letting you kind of circle into drinking, not drinking, and then getting back to normal again and being good.
Candid conversation: Raquel stood up for herself and told James that he needed to stop drinking
‘I think about the way that you talk to me when you’re drunk. It scares me because if we have kids together, I don’t want to put them in any situation relatively close to that. You understand? And if you can’t get your s*** together, then we will break up,’ she declared.
‘Ok,’ James said.
Raquel said she would attend Al-Anon meetings to support him and James said he also would go to a meeting and promised to stop drinking.
Ultimatum understood: James understood the ultimatum and agreed to it
Making up: Raquel climbed into his lap as he promised to stop drinking
‘There’s something about this time, the way she’s looking at me, the way she’s so upset. I truly feel like I need to take it seriously before she just walks out the door and then I’m sitting there wondering what the hell happened,’ James said in a confessional.
He beckoned her over and Raquel climbed into his lap and started crying as James kissed her.
‘If you’re gonna drink, you’re gonna drink. I can’t stop you from doing that anymore,’ Raquel said tearfully during the season eight episode titled If You’re Going To Drink, I Can’t Stop You.
Tender moment: The couple kissed as Raquel admitted that she was scared
Inappropriate messages: Raquel read out the messages when prompted by a producer
The episode opened with Stassi Schroeder, 31, uncharacteristically downplaying her birthday.
‘This year, I’m like a newly hatched baby dragon. Next year, I feel like I’ll be right back into full grown dragon mode like reigning terror and fire,’ the Game Of Thrones fan said in a confessional.
Lisa Vanderpump, 59, meanwhile was mourning the sudden death of her mother Jean and was visited by her friend Nathalie.
Birthday girl: The episode opened with Stassi Schroeder, 31, uncharacteristically downplaying her birthday
Baby dragon: ‘This year, I’m like a newly hatched baby dragon. Next year, I feel like I’ll be right back into full grown dragon mode like reigning terror and fire,’ the Game Of Thrones fan said in a confessional
In mourning: Lisa Vanderpump, 59, meanwhile was mourning the sudden death of her mother Jean and was visited by her friend Nathalie
Nathalie brought Lisa framed photos of her and her mother who died of deep vein thrombosis.
Lisa was headed to London for the services and was going to miss the wedding of Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright.
Raquel was earlier shown telling Sur employees Danica Dow and Dayna Kathan about getting drunk over the weekend and receiving the hateful texts from James.
Sudden death: The British restaurateur said her mother died suddenly of deep vein thrombosis
Business partner: Nathalie came to support her friend and business partner
Throwback photo: Lisa was gifted a throwback photo of her and her mother Jean from 2008
‘I left my phone in my purse in the kitchen, passed out in bed, then woke up to a million texts from James like, ”whore, slut”,’ Raquel revealed.
Dayna told her that she deserved better treatment and a producer urged Raquel to read some of the texts.
‘F*** you. Where are you? I’m breaking up with you. Whore. Slut. Whore. F*** you,’ Raquel read out loud.
Catching up: Danica Dow asked Raquel about her weekend
The messages: Raquel talked about getting drunk over the weekend and receiving the hateful texts from James
Good times: The beauty queen was shown having fun over the weekend
Not right: Dayna Kathan told Raquel that she deserved better treatment
Read them: A producer said that Raquel should read the texts
‘It makes me literally want to throw up,’ she added.
Ariana Madix, 34, who shares the same June 24th birthday with Stassi, was getting ready for her birthday party.
She was in a tough spot as her boyfriend Tom Sandoval, 36, had been stripped of his best man title and disinvited to Jax’s wedding, while she was a member of the bridal party.
Birthday girl: Ariana Madix had a glass of wine while getting ready for her birthday party
Ariana had been dealing with depression but after a deep sleep felt better and rallied with her friends.
She was greeted with big hugs from her friends including Danica and new Sur server Charli Burnett.
Ariana also was supported by her brother Jeremy who celebrated with her.
Warm welcome: Ariana received a warm welcome at her birthday party
Fun party: The birthday bash included Ariana’s brother Jeremy
Brittany at the party told Sandoval that she was over their argument and Jax allowed him back into his wedding party as best man.
Jax in a confessional admitted that he wasn’t over it, but let Sandoval back in to quiet everyone up.
Ariana was relieved that Sandoval would be joining her at the Kentucky wedding and hugged Brittany.
Wedding party: Jax Taylor at the party allowed Tom Sandoval back into his wedding party
Big smile: Brittany Cartwright smiled as Sandoval was invited back
Raquel at the birthday party scolded James for wanting to leave so early and reminded him that they needed to talk about his ‘completely inappropriate’ texts.
‘Had you just answered your phone, I wouldn’t have been so triggered,’ James replied.
He added in a confessional: ‘When Raquel doesn’t answer, I feel like she’s out there doing things I used to do. You’re in Hollywood, guys are talking to you. Like, those kinds of girls don’t get left alone at parties’.
So triggered: James at the party blamed Raquel for not answering her phone
Talk later: Raquel made it clear that they would talk later about his messages
No answer: ‘When Raquel doesn’t answer, I feel like she’s out there doing things I used to do. You’re in Hollywood, guys are talking to you. Like, those kinds of girls don’t get left alone at parties,’ James said in a confessional
Ariana after her party took Raquel out back to speak with her about James berating her.
She asked to read the texts and Raquel obliged.
‘I hate you. I’m breaking up with you. I would never marry you,’ Ariana read aloud.
Verbal abuse: Ariana after her party took Raquel out back to speak with her about James berating her
‘It’s only a matter of time before words like that start to become part of what you think and believe. …I just don’t want to see you sacrifice your own self-worth to try to help him if he’s not helping himself,’ she told Raquel.
Raquel in a confessional shared her feelings, saying, ‘No girl goes into a relationship thinking they’re going to be verbally abused. It’s scary to me. I don’t ever want to go through this again.’
‘Basically, this is like, this is the last straw, you know?,’ Raquel told Ariana.
Verbally abused: Raquel in a confessional shared her feelings, saying, ‘No girl goes into a relationship thinking they’re going to be verbally abused. It’s scary to me. I don’t ever want to go through this again’
The crew headed together to Kentucky for pre-wedding festivities.
Lala Kent, 30, was shamed for daring to wear a white dress to the rehearsal dinner.
Brittany embraced her castle wedding venue and shouted from a balcony, ‘I’m getting married’ while Jax insisted that Tom Schwartz be placed in front of Sandoval.
Wrong color: Lala Kent, 30, was shamed for daring to wear a white dress to the wedding rehearsal dinner in Kentucky
The bride: Brittany embraced her castle wedding venue and shouted from a balcony, ‘I’m getting married’
Wrong order: Jax was displeased that Sandoval was first in line among his groomsmen and wanted ‘best friend’ Tom Schwartz up front