Woman who suffered miscarriages says her dog Poppy, 13, should be treated like an actual child

A woman who is unable to have children has said her trusted dog is like a substitute daughter to her, and believes she should be given the same privileges as a child. 

Kate Taylor, 42, from Calne, Wiltshire, adopted her cross-breed Poppy, now 13, when she was only ten weeks old while struggling to conceive with her husband, Rob, and says she dotes on her pet the way she would a child. 

She working from home, and cannot bear to be away from her pooch more than three hours at a time. She is pushing for dogs to be accepted in all public spaces the way children are. 

Speaking to FEMAIL , Kate explained that ‘perceptive’ Poppy saw her through moments in her life where she could not see ‘the light at the end of the tunnel,’ and helped her carry on. 

‘Why should being a mum mean you have to give birth?,’ she said. ‘I’ve come to realise that being biologically related to someone is the least of what makes you a mother. Motherhood is so much more than that. It’s about loving someone unconditionally, nurturing and caring for them. Putting their needs before your own.

‘The void childlessness has in my life has been very much filled by my dog Poppy, who I treat and love like any mum would their daughter.’

Kate Taylor, 42, from Calne, Wiltshire, adopted her cross-breed Poppy, 13, when she was only ten weeks old while struggling to conceive with her husband, Rob, and says she dotes on the pup the way she would a child

Mother and daughter:  Kate was left feeling like she did not belong in society because she could not conceive after three failed rounds of IVF, but she then realised Poppy was the only child she needed

Mother and daughter:  Kate was left feeling like she did not belong in society because she could not conceive after three failed rounds of IVF, but she then realised Poppy was the only child she needed

‘The love and devotion that I feel towards her could not be stronger, and I know many people feel that same bond towards their canine companion.’ 

Kate – who runs the pet directory dotty4paws.co.uk -recalled how she and her husband Rob went through three rounds of unsuccessful IVF, putting strain on their wellbeing. 

Admitting that not being able to be a mother gave her a sense that she did not belong in society, she quickly found that the unconditional love she gave Poppy filled the void. 

And Kate admitted that leaving Poppy is unbearable, because the pup suffers from separation anxiety. 

‘I hate leaving her. If I do, I make it as brief as possible,’ she says.  

The blogger, who sometimes refers to the dog as her ‘furbaby’, says she can never be out for the whole day, and cannot leave the house for more than three hours.

Kate says that leaving Poppy is unbearable, because the pup suffers from separation anxiety (pictured on a snowy day away)

Kate says that leaving Poppy is unbearable, because the pup suffers from separation anxiety (pictured on a snowy day away) 

But she argued: ‘You wouldn’t think of leaving a child alone while you’re out.’  

She also explained that she cannot understand that ‘misbehaving’ children are allowed to sit in pubs while dogs are kept out. 

‘We’ll go out to the pub and on the side you have a dog quietly sitting under the table, you wouldn’t know she’s there, and across, you’d have two kids creating mayhem,’ she said. 

The dog-mother (pictured) says she cannot understand that misbehaved children are allowed to sit in pubs while dogs are kept out

The dog-mother (pictured) says she cannot understand that misbehaved children are allowed to sit in pubs while dogs are kept out

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